Wednesday, August 10, 2011


I found myself yesterday thinking this little gem:

"I wish I didn't schedule so many activities so that I could have more space in my calendar to schedule more activities."

And how, I wonder, does one do that?

Monday, August 01, 2011

Relationship Questions

My homework in the next week:

  • What imbalance do you find in your relationship?
  • What might that imbalance represent symbolically?
  • What can be negotiated to lessen the imbalance?
  • How much do you want to fight for the relationship vs. maintaining the status quo?
  • Who much flexibility can you find in yourself to accommodate a change?
  • What are you doing to keep things imbalanced? (I think of this as - what barriers exist to change?)
  • What ideas or alternatives can you think of to change the imbalance?
And then the big one:
  • What does it take to be emotionally healthy in my marriage?